We can uplift and affirm one another in a variety of ways. Here are eight ways to consider…
1. Speaking – Proverbs 16:24 says, “Pleasant words are … sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” The number of ways we can encourage one another through our speech is almost limitless. One pastor friend never leaves a conversation without saying one positive thing to the person he’s talking to.
2. Writing – The New Testament epistles are proof of the power of written communication. Sometimes a short note to someone who’s discouraged can mean so much. Think creatively. For example, there’s a staff member on our team that randomly leaves encouraging notes on people’s desks. It’s his way of saying, “I appreciate you.”
3. Being Present – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted,” says Psalm 34:18. Sometimes God asks us simply to be with others in person on his behalf. I have learned that you don’t have to say much. In fact, sometimes it’s better to say nothing. Our presence itself can be a deeply encouraging gift.
4. Touching – Jesus often touched people. Scientists are just starting to document the positive effects of touch, which God has known about all along. From a light touch on the forearm to a tight hug, these gestures encourage others wordlessly and are best expressed by those who have the love language of touch.
5. Praying – The Apostle Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 1:11, “You help us by your prayers.” Everyone can have this ministry. My wife Jennifer has this gift of encouragement. She’s a prayer warrior! My friend Jason, also asks the question, “How can I pray for you?” on his Facebook wall each week. What a great way to encourage someone by praying for them.
6. Showing Hospitality – “Practice hospitality,” says Romans 12:13. I recently attended a mixed small group leaders appreciation event for our leaders at SCG, hosted by our Mixed Groups Coordinators Jeff & Pam! It was in the small touches of decor, food and entertainment that they communicated that they appreciated their leaders.
7. Giving – Proverbs 22:9 states that, “A generous man will himself be blessed.” God wants his people to share their lives with others—their time, their money, their possessions. Any of these can be used creatively to encourage others.
8. Helping – Common jobs and chores—housework, shuttling a friend to the airport, baby-sitting—are so appreciated in the ministry of encouragement. “Whatever you do,” says Colossians 3:23, “work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men.”
So, what’s your encouragement style? And while we’re talking about it, thanks for taking time to read and interact with my blog. Your comments, Facebook likes and shared links are always appreciated.
